First reaction.... get defensive.
No one wants to hear it, ouch. what the heck.. where is this coming from?
Who are u to be telling me these things?
Just no good. I'm not a fan.
I'm hurting. a lot. and i didnt realize it until fairly recently.
i could pretend im okay. but im not.
though i shouldnt be so SELFISH and just think about myself and my hurts.
there is a world full of hurt out there without food and water and clean clothes.
i've go so much of that, i dont know what to do with it all.
It's time for me to seriously grow up.
Hopefully you can forgive me for my stupidity and selfishness one of these days.